Real Problems from Real Readers
While I was gone, I got a lot of emails asking me questions about when I’d be back, what to eat, or even just plain compliments about the site.
I’d just like to post a few “Dear Abby” styled posts on this blog for you to see that you’re not alone (of course names and emails will be changed for protection =). Hope you can find something!
***NOTE: By the way, if you see your email up here and feel really uncomfortable about it (even though I’ve changed everybody’s name and blocked their email addresses) please let me know and I’ll take it down. I just want to double check because even though I’ve received consent on many of the emails, I want to make sure I didn’t make a mistake. With the way the world is today, random people suing each other for ridiculous things, I can’t afford to make mistakes.
***QUESTION FROM A READER***
hello Ray,
im an acne sufferer of 6 years and i found your site intresting since nothing else seems to work.
but the how to get started links dont seem to work. could u provide some help?
-Max
>>>MY COMMENTS:
sorry about the wait, i actually haven’t been able to work on the site for now cuz i’m still in school and trying to juggle work, academics, workin out, and my own social life. I’m going to start workin on the site in about 2-3 months and try to complete more (there’s a lot). For now:
1. Do some online research about kefir, check out the link I provide
2. Stop eating sweets, white flour products, and bad food
3. Start eating fiber, if you have to, take fiber supplements
4. Take about 1 tablespoon of Health from the Sun Total EFAs mixed in with your kefir (I do this everyday)
If you can do these four steps consistently for about a month or two, you’ll definitely start seeing results.
PS. if you’ve ever taken antibiotics for acne, take some “probiotics” for about 2 weeks with your kefir.
***QUESTION FROM READER***
Hi Ray,
Was at your website and was pretty inspired by it. Was looking into kefir and had two questions about it.
1. Where did you get the kefir grains? Did you buy them online or find them from a local kefir group?
2. Did you actually use raw goat milk to make your kefir?
I was just thinking about how difficult it is to find raw goat milk. I have to make phone calls and drive about an hour to go get it. Also… do you think you can freeze raw goat milk to make it last longer? I was thinking about buying more of it, throwing it into the freezer so that I would have it available when i wanted to use it so I wouldn’t have to drive an hour every week to go get raw goat milk.
Well those were my questions. Thanks again for putting up such a wonderful site. Hope all goes well with finals for your engineering.
Bobby Wang
>>>MY COMMENTS:
just try googling “howiclearedmyacne blog” and you’ll find it.
The kefir grains I actually got from a friend. But it also depends on what kind of strain you get. Some strains are healthy and some strains suck, you can buy some strains on eBay but I dont knwo if they’re good. My friend actually had some heart problems and they’ve been building up their batch for a while so it’s a really good strain.
I did use raw goat milk for a while, but I couldn’t afford it, plus I had to drive an hour to LA just to get it. So with my college student salary, I figured I’d just use raw goat milk when I got a job, for now it’s just regular grocery store milk.
-Ray
***COMMENT FROM READER***
Hi Ray,
great job on your blog and specially on your skin. I can find the 5 step summaries fine but the links to the actual program don’t seem to work. Is it me or they are just not active. Can’t wait to see the videos
thank you for your inspiration
Ralph
***COMMENT FROM READER***
Ray,
I’ve read most of what you’ve had to say including the five steps. After that I went to click on the links to get started on a step and they did not work.
I really like what you have to say. I’m sixteen and I don’t have really bad acne, but I have tried many different things to get rid of what I have. i.e. Aveda foaming cleanser, Proactiv Solution, Clearasil “Clearer skin in just 3 days” and something by J and J. That’s just to name a few. NOTHING has worked. I’m excited to try what you have to offer, but the links have no destination and just reload the current page.
Happy Graduation,
John
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Lol, I just started on this page a couple months ago and really worked on it for a few days even though I knew nothing about website design and programming and this is what I got so far. I’m not even close to being finished but then school started so I’ve been a bit preoccupied with that.
When I finish, in about a month, I’m going to be posting video tutorials on my website of what I eat and what I do on a daily basis. I think you guys will really like that.
My acne was actually not that bad until about 18 years old after I tried a lot of other things I think that had made it worse. Whatever you do for now, do NOT try antibiotics. Start eating yogurt, less sugar and white flour made products, drink more water and eat more fiber. Those would be my suggestions until later.
I’ll be sending out emails to those who emailed me when I update the site though so keep your eyes open and thanks for emailing!
-Ray
***COMMENT FROM READER***
i just stumbled upon it after being so fed up with my acne. and despite what they say, i always KNEW food affected my acne. the minute i stopped eating junk food, my face started looking better. not great but better. now its good to know what foods are better and why… and ironically, my salad once a week doesnt compare to yours once a day haha. please keep posting. thanks!
-thomas
***COMMENT FROM READER***
Hello Im just emailing you to thank you for your great website I think its very informative and put together.
I suffer from mild acne and definetly agree with the information you put on your website specially how diet affects acne and other things… im still reading and absorbing your site lol.
I cant wait for your next update and hope you gain something for doing such a great service to everyone through your site.
-chris
***COMMENT FROM READER***
hey i read your blog on how you cleared your acne, i need help with this one, im not sure what to use and i’ve tried a lot of products.
I read your site but i see a shit load of vitamin pills and im not sure what to do.
Could you tell me in simplier steps on how you cleared your acne?
I know i will start eating salads and yogurt now
Hopefully see your reply soon! I can’t wait to clear my face like yours.
-Joey
>>>MY COMMENTS:
yeah, i’ve actually gotten quite a few emails and talked to a lot of people about my website. They’re usually curious just about what I do and what I’m eating now on a daily basis. When I finish school in March, I’m going to actually do something that I think is pretty cool and that’ll help you guys out a lot. I’m going to start posting video tutorials, probably hosted by youtube or something, on my website about what I take and how to make kefir, etc…
So check back then or I’m going to send out emails when I do that (i’m keeping most of the emails people’ve sent me as a newsletter list). For now, go to ralphs and buy some kefir and start taking some EFA supplements with them during lunch. lol, it’s what I do when I’m away from home and don’t have access to most of my stuff.
-ray
***QUESTION FROM READER***
I’m currently suffering a lot of acne problem I have tried the following methods:
Eating Less chips
Less sugar
Less wheat
Eating more veggies
Eating Omega 3-6-9 capsules twice a day
I EVEN TRIED Perfect Skin Capsules from Genuine Health Product NOTHING WORKS!!!!
NOW i asked my doctor and he gave me antibotic capsules for a month to try its been 2 weeks and no improvement!!!!
I’m IN NEED OF DEEP HELP CAN YOU please tell me what to do???
I usually NEVER take capsules and supplements because i don’t know what they do to my body, but now i see your blog you have a bucket full of supplements ARE THERE ANY supplements that are ALL IN ONE? I can’t buy all of those man.
Perfect Skin supplement i researched which contains : Zinc, Vitamin E, Selenium, Chronium and other fish oil thought this was going to be the one for me but NOTHING AT ALL!
i still have acne so bad, scars on my left and and right cheeks pimples on my forehead im gonna RIP SOMEONE APART.
HELP me out RAY,
-Melissa
>>>MY COMMENTS:
lol, let me just tell you, i’ve been there. it sucks like hell.
that being said, first thing is, you gotta relax. i now at this point that sounds ridiculous, but stress really does affect your skin. not directly of course, but indirectly because it compromises your immune system and relates to your hormones which in turn affect your skin.
but, obviously, just because you’re calm about it, doesn’t mean acne goes “poof gone.” First off, don’t just eat less chips, don’t eat chips at all, completely cut out sugar, I mean completely. And stop eating all forms of wheat, bread, pasta, rice, any sort of bread related products. don’t binge on the alcohol drinking if you’re a partier because that will mess up your liver which, as you probably can guess, works back to your face. i’ll explain how all this works later but in this email i’ll just give you the skinny on what to do because it seems like you’re in a pinch right now.
stop drinking milk. don’t drink juice, too much sugar. don’t eat fruits, too much sugar. i’m not saying don’t ever eat any of this stuff, just for now, stop eating these things because they’re not helping. when your situation improves, you can have some of these things in small doses. but more on that later. stop staying up late, get good amounts of sleep. go out and start eating yogurt, this is important, YOGURT. eat it with your EFAs (omega 3-6-9). Get some multivitamins from costco and start taking those to start. Don’t touch avocados or potatoes. Don’t eat shellfish.
That leaves, fish, any kind of salads, fresh vegetables, some soups (no cheese), subway (i eat that a lot, i make an exception with the bread here cuz it’s my reward for being strict in other parts of my diet), any kind of meat (chicken, turkey, pork, etc), i’m basically telling you that you HAVE TO stop eating sugar, starch, and breads (rice, pasta, breads, etc…)
your diet should be 2/3 fresh fruit and fiber, 1/3 cooked stuff. drink 8 glasses of water a day, spread a part of course don’t down it all at once. oh, and stop taking the antibiotics, that’ll really mess you up in the long run. you should start seeing some sort of improvement within a month if you follow that.
Good luck, i totally get how you feel, trust me, i used to wish i could just rip of the outer layer of my skin. it’s really all about self discipline and will power, if you have what it takes, you can definitely get clear skin. but if you break the rules and don’t follow what i tell you, well… then you’ll get another pimple. =)
I’m not saying that you’ll be fully cured, don’t expect that at all because there’s much more that i still need to tell you and can’t fit it all in one email, but this is a good place to start. oh yeah, and start checking my website regularly cuz i’m gonna start posting videos, i figure it’s a lot faster than me having to type everything and i can start showing demonstrations of stuff.
-ray
***QUESTION FROM READER***
Hi,i think i’m having the same problems as you’v had last time.Could you at least guide me on the right path cos i’m feeling reli lost rite now and i’m heading to college in 2weeeks.Are there any quick methods on how to reduce my scars?I’m quite desperate rite now.My mum seems to be wanting to take me to see a doctor for prescription of antibiotics later but according to your blog,u tot dat it’s a bad idea.HELP ME!!i wanted to buy acneyoda’s book but i dun think i can afford.I’m an Asian btw…..Please reply as soon as possible..really need your help.
-Mary
>>>ME:
ok ok lol, whatever you do, don’t start taking anti biotics, it’ll really f’ you up. just so you know, you need to be realistic, you’re not going to completely clear your acne in two weeks before college, but you can definitely make a dramatic change.
if you really wanted to, you could take antibiotics for a short fix, but in the long run, probably after a month and a half, things might get even worse so you’ll be like 4 weeks into college and have even more acne.
Okay, I’ll tell you what to do for the next 2 weeks, go to your local GNC store or vitamin store and get some EFAs, then go to Ralphs and buy some Probiotic Kefir (plain flavor). Eat those two together during lunch. Stop eating bad stuff. Completely, no sugar, no white flour, stop eating bread (just for now), stop eating fruit.
Actually, you know what, send me another email about what you guys eat on a daily basis. Because I’m asian too and I had to completely transform my diet.
>>>HER:
Thx for replying me…but it’s kinda too late..my mum has already forced me to seeing the doctor and now on the antibiotics.Luckily it’s only a 5-days dosage.
My mum usually cooks fried food(fish,saussage,vegetables)-claiming to be oil-free.But i eat those food as little as possible and to curb my hunger pangs, i eat plain white bread(0.0)…..She also cooks braised chicken and spicy food a lot.
Btw, i thought fruits has vitamins in them.I eat 1 every day.Can i take evening primrose oil and fish oil?
>>>ME:
lol, it’s okay, i took antibiotics for a couple months actually on and off for maybe a total of a year. I still recovered eventually. Your acne will get better for the short term, but it might take a turn for the worse if you keep using antibiotics. The thing you have to know about antibiotics is that it’s indiscriminate of killing bacteria. That means it kills the bad acne bacteria but it also kills the good bacteria in your body. And the good bacteria has to be re-implanted with yogurt and yogloo. if you’re chinese you should know what i’m talking about, yang luh dwoh (lol, i dont know how to spell it with chinese).
Eat oil free stuff, that’s good, try to get your mom to make more liang ban (cool mix) kind of food. I’m saying this assuming your chinese, taiwanese. Don’t eat white bread when you’re hungry, white bread it made from white flour and will aggravate your hunger. White flour, white rice, pasta, any sour dough bread is BAD. Stay away from that stuff. If you’re hungry, eat a salad. It’s better that you eat something else other than sweets and bread related food.
Chicken is good, but try not to eat so much spicy food because it’ll make you sweat, and if you have oily skin it’ll make your glands work. you don’t want to aggravate your skin if you don’t have to. Start taking primrose and fish oil, that’s good. Keep taking your vitamins, that’s good, but I, personally, don’t eat fruits other than berries e.g. blueberries, blackberries, strawberries, etc.. and if you do eat them, only eat about one handful per serving otherwise it’ll spike your blood sugar and aggravate acne too. Feel free to email back if you have any other questions.
-ray
***COMMENT FROM READER***
Wow, that site has an amazing amount of comments on it. Congrats on helping out the acne community. my skin is doing better and been feeling better about myself. eating a lot of salads and taking lots of those vitamins. sometimes i still get breakout because i don’t think i sleep enough or fall off of the diet and just eat crap. Well anyways… thanks for the site. looks like it is coming along nicely.
-Jason
I think that the majority of you out there know that fast food is bad. But, I don’t really think you understand how bad the fast food in our society really is. Allow me to enlighten you =)…
Finally, there’s the chicken. This is probably the healthiest thing in the entire burrito, assuming that you did get “the chicken burrito.” Pork, beef, the fried fish that fast food places usually have, are much dirtier forms of protein when being processed in your body (more on this later). But don’t forget this, fast food chicken’s are usually steroid-injected with plenty of body altering chemicals. When you eat the chicken, you’re eating a lot of the chemicals buried within the chicken meat. Now tell me that doesn’t do your body damage in the long run. And if you don’t believe me about this chicken steroid-injecting, feel free to do a search on “google”, there are hundreds of PETA related articles on it.
But when I come back and finish this article I’ll be sure to tell you all the relation between acne and kefir.